Misconception No. 1:
Veil is an Arab culture dress, not religious.
Answer to this misconception: Prophet's wives and other believing women did not
use to veil before the verses of veil were revealed (Sahih Bukhari, Volume 1,
Book 4, Number 148). This is enough proof that veil is religious, not cultural.
Before Islam in Arabia, men and women would go round the Kaba naked, arguing
that they should present themselves before God in the same condition they were
born (Invitation to Islam, Issue 1, May 1997). Islam taught Arabs how to veil.
Judge Islam by Quran and Sunnah. Do not judge Islam by action of Muslims
because there are so many so called Muslims out there who do not practise
Islam. For example, do not define veil by how one of your Pakistani friend
covers her. This is because there are some Pakistani women who wear veil
properly when some others do not.
Misconception No. 2:
Rules of hijab for prophet's wives are different from rules of hijab for
other women. This is because:
(i) God tells prophet's companions to talk to prophet's
wives from behind a curtain when they go to prophet's home (33:53). God doesn't
mention anything like this about other women.
(ii) The list of unmarriageable kin for prophet's wives
(33:55) is different from the list of unmarriageable kin for other women
(24:31). Husband's father, husband's son, their own adopted sons, male subordinates free from physical needs,
and children are not included in the list of unmarriageable kin for prophet's
wives, but they are included in the list of unmarriageable kin for other women.
Answer to this misconception:
(i) Prophet's wives are the mothers of the believers. The
Quran 33: 53 says prophet's wives are unmarriageable kin of the believers.
Prophet's companions used to call them "mothers". This made prophet's
companions think that they can talk to prophet's wives face to face like they
talk to their mothers and other unmarriageable kin. This is why God sent
message ordering them to talk to prophet's wives from behind a curtain when
they go to prophet's home. Prophet's wives are our mothers in a spiritual
sense, so we cannot marry them. But we must talk to them from behind a curtain
just like we talk to other women from behind a curtain when we go to someone's
home. Aisha (RA) narrates that on one occasion a female Muslim wanted to give a
letter to the Holy Prophet (SW), the letter was delivered to the Holy Prophet
(SW) from behind a curtain. (Abu Dawood Book 33, Hadith # 4154)
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