The Article:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6MDdLNUtSeUN3YTQ/view?usp=sharing
Appendix A:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6c3YyM1BPbTlabG8/view?usp=sharing
Appendix B:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/14QB2QkDw6S201Mhgv8hJDHU_gln2IrGYR7bVuwhl2YY/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix C:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6N29iUkhCYmViNlU/view?usp=sharing
28 April 2015
24 July 2014
Why Does God Punish homosexuals?
Matt: Why Islam punishes homosexuals? God created homosexuality, did not he?
Hu: Well, God created evil too. Can you blame God for the evil deed people commit for this reason? No. God created both good and evil to test us. Since God doesn’t tell you to choose to be homosexual, you cannot blame God if you choose to become a homosexual.
Matt: Sexuality is not a choice. If homosexuality is a choice, then heterosexuality is a choice too.
Hu: Sexuality is not a choice in the sense that you born with a sexuality. For example, a male baby born with male sexuality (male sex organs) and a female baby born with female sexuality (female sex organs). Sexuality is a choice the sense that you can defy the sexuality you were born with and choose another sexuality. When someone defies the sexuality he or she was born with and chooses to practise another sexuality, he or she is called a homosexual. For example, if a man defies his male sexuality and choose to practise female sexuality, then he is called a homosexual. In Islam, you must go with the sexuality you born with. Choosing to practise a sexuality that you were not born with is same as altering or corrupting the default setting of a system.
Matt: You claim that someone can choose to corrupt the default setting. Then that raises the question, what type person would chose to corrupt that default setting.
Hu: You asked me what type of person would chose to corrupt that default setting. You have no idea of the outside world, Matt. You have no idea about the sick minded people out there. There are people out there who just want to have their sexual desire fulfilled. They don’t care if their sexual partner is a dog or a person of same sex. I personally talked to some gays and asked them what made them gays. They said they wanted to try out homosexuality and then ended up loving being homosexuals. Now you tell me what kind of people they are. Last week I read in the newspaper that an Australian man fucked his neighbour’s dog to death. Now you tell me what kind of man he is. Homosexuality is like an addiction when you adopt that. Killing is an addiction of a serial killer, drinking is an addiction of an alcoholic. Drugs are addiction of a drug addicts. If you pick up a habit, then you have the ability to give up that habit. All you need to have trust in yourself that many addicted can't unless admitted into rehab.
Dr. Muzammil Siddiqi, the Former President of The Islamic Society of North America (ISNA) said: "Homosexuality is a moral disorder. It is a moral disease, a sin and corruption... No person is born homosexual, just like no one is born a thief, a liar or murderer. People acquire these evil habits due to a lack of proper guidance and education." (2001)
Matt: We see homosexual behaviors in some animals. If some animals can be homosexuals, then why can’t we human beings be?
Hu: What are homosexual aptitudes or behavior you are referring to? rubbing body with each other? trying to climb on each other? you can't call an animal homosexual based on attitudes not unique to homosexuals. Provide evidence that other animals have sex with the same sex because its unique to homosexuals.
Moreover, even if other animals are homosexuals, that doesn't mean we have to be homosexual as well. When a tiger forcibly has sex with a tigress, we don’t call that tiger a rapist because tiger doesn’t have conscience. We can’t rape people because tigers do. We use our conscience to decide what to do and what not to do.
Matt: Some psychologists say homosexuality is human nature. Why should humans not be homosexual if it’s human nature?
Hu: Well, many psychologists suggest that violence (such as, committing murder, rape, etc.) are human nature. Does this mean that it is okay to murder and rape since they are human nature? The answer is “no”. It doesn’t matter whether homosexuality is a human nature or not. What matters is whether it is good for us or not.
Matt: My nephew was not encouraged to become homosexual, he was just very clearly born like that.
Hu: Personal observation is not proof because there is no way to evaluate its reliability.
Matt: Other people's sexuality is no one's damn business. Everybody should have the right to choose.
Hu: As I mentioned before, homosexuality is a habit just like smoking, drinking, and gambling. You have right to do your habit as long as your habit doesn't harm others. Until medical proof comes out, homosexuality will be seen as a habit like smoking, drinking, & gambling. We human beings ban habits that are harmful for our society. Homosexuality is bad for our society. Check out the link below to know how homosexuality harms both homosexuals and non-homosexuals in our society:
Is Homosexuality Scientific?
Matt: Will you accept homosexuality if modern science confirms it? Modern science says homosexuality is epigenetic. Science Daily article says-“However, when these epi-marks are transmitted across generations from fathers to daughters or mothers to sons, they may cause reversed effects, such as the feminization of some traits in sons, such as sexual preference, and similarly a partial masculinization of daughters.”
Hu: There is a difference between scientific facts and hypothesis. The idea that epi-marks may cause reverse effects is a hypothesis. The journal article that Science Daily website used as a reference says the reverse effect of epi-marks is a hypothesis. Below are the links for both Science Daily article and the journal article that Science Daily website used as a reference:
If for the sake of argument we say that the hypothesis of the reverse effect of epi-marks is a scientific fact, that even doesn't justify homosexuality. Let me explain. Science Daily article says-“… they (epi-marks) may cause reversed effects, such as the feminization of SOME traits in sons, such as sexual preference, and similarly a PARTIAL masculinization of daughters”. The words SOME and PARTIAL indicate that when epi-marks have a reverse effect on a son’s masculine traits, it makes ONLY A SMALL NUMBER of masculine traits act like feminine traits. MOST OF THE masculine traits in the son remain acting like masculine traits. We know that majority controls minority, not the other way around.
Let’s say 20% of traits in a son are feminine due to the reverse effect of epi-marks. Can we say that the son feels like a daughter because of that? No. Because there are still 80% of traits in that son are masculine. The son will keep feeling like a son because of 80% masculine traits. If a person claims that he feels sexual desire to the same sex because of some reversed traits, then there is no doubt that person feels way stronger sexual desire to the opposite sex because of most of the non-reversed traits.
Note: Try the links below if the links above don't work.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6Ui0yZlFCYTBfTkE/edit?usp=sharing
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6cTF1WDVRRmJucU0/edit?usp=sharing
Note: Try the links below if the links above don't work.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6Ui0yZlFCYTBfTkE/edit?usp=sharing
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6cTF1WDVRRmJucU0/edit?usp=sharing
15 July 2014
Prophet (sw)'s Marriage with Aisha (ra)
Click on the Link below to read the research article:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6WHVJNk1iNkVkQmM/edit?usp=sharing
Appendices:
Appendix A:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6andKd2gzZFplMmM/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix B:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6VTlKTlVUT21NRW8/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix C (Part 1):
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6UjI4T0dMNU0wT0E/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix C (Part 2):
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6RFlaWGFkaG9DM2c/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix C (Part 3):
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6M1VLLWlDS0VpdVE/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix D:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6Z1dKS3oxZk8wS2M/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix E:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6SzNJR2FudkNVcE0/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix F:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6alJNUFc0NmxWdnM/edit?usp=sharing
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6WHVJNk1iNkVkQmM/edit?usp=sharing
Appendices:
Appendix A:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6andKd2gzZFplMmM/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix B:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6VTlKTlVUT21NRW8/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix C (Part 1):
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6UjI4T0dMNU0wT0E/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix C (Part 2):
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6RFlaWGFkaG9DM2c/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix C (Part 3):
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6M1VLLWlDS0VpdVE/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix D:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6Z1dKS3oxZk8wS2M/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix E:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6SzNJR2FudkNVcE0/edit?usp=sharing
Appendix F:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6G7feyu2n-6alJNUFc0NmxWdnM/edit?usp=sharing
14 July 2014
Did Prophet (sw) beat his wife Aisha (ra)?
Sahih Muslim, Book
004, Hadith Number 2127
says Prophet (sw) struck his wife Aisha (ra) on the chest which caused her
pain. The hadith narrates Prophet (sw) struck his wife Aisha (ra) because Aisha
(ra) doubted that God and His Prophet (sw) would
deal justly with her.
Islam
haters say Prophet (sw) struck his wife Aisha (ra) on the chest. Therefore, it
can be said that Prophet (sw) beat his wife Aisha (ra). Let’s analyze the claim
Islam haters. First, we need to ask ourselves what kind of “strike” that was.
“Strick” means “hit”. “Hit” can be many types, such as punch, slap, push,
elbow, and so on. The Arabic word “لْھَدًة” translated as “struck” in this
hadith. The Arabic word “لْھَدًة” means “pushed”. Therefore, it is clear that
Prophet (sw) pushed (slapped with an open palm) on the chest of Aisha (ra) that
caused her pain.
Did
Aisha (ra) consider it as a “beating” when Prophet (sw) pushed her on the
chest? The answer is “No.” In Sahih Muslim, Book 030, Hadith Number 5756,
Aisha (ra) says Prophet (sw) never beat anyone in his life, neither a woman nor
a servant.
Did
Prophet (sw) consider it as a “beating” when he pushed Aisha (ra) on the chest?
The answer is “No”. Prophet (sw) pushed (slapped with an open palm) on the
chest of Aisha (ra) in order to drive away her
doubt that God and His Prophet (sw) would deal justly with her. There are hadiths those say
Prophet (sw) pushed (slapped with an open palm) other people on their chests to drive away doubt or fear in their minds. For
example, Sahih Muslim, Book 004, Hadith Number 1787, Sahih Muslim, Book 031,
Hadith Number 6051, Sahih Muslim, Book 11, Hadith 3937, and Mustadrak al-Hakim,
Hadith 4492.
Some
Islam haters may say it doesn’t matter whether Aisha (ra) and Prophet (sw)
considered that push (slap with an open palm) as beating or not, that was an
act of beating because that push (slap with an open palm) hurt Aisha (ra). In
reply to this argument, I will say that it was NOT an act of beating if we look
up the meaning of “beat” in the Oxford dictionaries. Oxford dictionaries say:
beat (verb) means to “strike (a person or an animal) repeatedly and violently so as to hurt or injure them, typically with an implement
such as a club or whip”. Prophet
(sw) pushed (slapped with an open palm) on the chest of Aisha (ra) once, NOT multiple
times repeatedly. Moreover, that push (slap with an open palm) may cause Aisha
(ra) pain but was not violent to make Aisha cry in pain or lose control and
fall on the ground.
References:
Sahih Muslim, Book 004, Hadith Number 2127: Muhammad b. Qais
said (to the people): Should I not narrate to you (a Hadith of the Holy
Prophet) on my authority and on the authority of my mother? We thought that he meant
the mother who had given him birth. He (Muhammad b. Qais) then reported that it
was 'Aisha who had narrated this: Should I not narrate to you about myself and
about the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him)? We said: Yes. She said:
When it was my turn for Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) to spend the
night with me, he turned his side, put on his mantle and took off his shoes and
placed them near his feet, and spread the corner of his shawl on his bed and
then lay down till he thought that I had gone to sleep. He took hold of his
mantle slowly and put on the shoes slowly, and opened the door and went out and
then closed it lightly. I covered my head, put on my veil and tightened my
waist wrapper, and then went out following his steps till he reached Baqi'. He
stood there and he stood for a long time. He then lifted his hands three times,
and then returned and I also returned. He hastened his steps and I also
hastened my steps. He ran and I too ran. He came (to the house) and I also came
(to the house). I, however, preceded him and I entered (the house), and as I
lay down in the bed, he (the Holy Prophet) entered the (house), and said: Why
is it, O 'Aisha, that you are out of breath? I said: There is nothing. He said:
Tell me or the Subtle and the Aware would inform me. I said: Messenger of
Allah, may my father and mother be ransom for you, and then I told him (the
whole story). He said: Was it the darkness (of your shadow) that I saw in front
of me? I said: Yes. He struck me on the chest which caused me pain, and then
said: Did you think that Allah and His Apostle would deal unjustly with you?
She said: Whatsoever the people conceal, Allah will know it. He said: Gabriel came to me when you saw me. He
called me and he concealed it from you. I responded to his call, but I too
concealed it from you (for he did not come to you), as you were not fully
dressed. I thought that you had gone to sleep, and I did not like to awaken
you, fearing that you may be frightened. He (Gabriel) said: Your Lord has commanded
you to go to the inhabitants of Baqi' (to those lying in the graves) and beg
pardon for them. I said: Messenger of Allah, how should I pray for them (How
should I beg forgiveness for them)? He said: Say, Peace be upon the inhabitants
of this city (graveyard) from among the Believers and the Muslims, and may
Allah have mercy on those who have gone ahead of us, and those who come later
on, and we shall, God willing, join you.
Sahih
Muslim, Book 030, Hadith Number 5756: 'A'isha reported
that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) never beat anyone with his hand, neither a woman nor a servant, but only, in the case when he had been fighting in the
cause of Allah and he never took
revenge for anything unless the things made inviolable by Allah were made
violable; he then took revenge for Allah, the Exalted and Glorious.
Sahih Muslim, Book 004, Hadith Number 1787:
Ubayy b. Ka'b reported: I was in the mosque when a man entered and prayed and
recited (the Qur'in) ina style to which I objected. Then another man entered
(the mosque) and recited in a style different from that of his companion. When
we had finished the prayer, we all went to allah's Messenger (may peace be upon
him) and said to him: This man recited in a style to which I objected, and the
other entered and recited in a style different from that of his companion. The
Messenger of allah (may peace be upon him) asked them to recite and so they
recited, and the apostle of allah (may peace be upon him) expressed approval of
their affairs (their modes of recitation). And there occurred in my mind a sort of denial which did
not occur even during the Days of Ignorance. When the Messenger of allah (may
peace be upon him) saw how I was affected (by a wrong idea), he struck my chest,
whereupon I broke into sweating and felt as though I were looking at allah with
fear. He (the Holy Prophet) said to me: Ubayy. a message was sent to me to
recite the Qur'an in one dialect, and I replied: Make (things) easy for my
people. It was conveyed to me for the second time that it should be recited in
two dialects. I again replied to him: Make affairs easy for my people. It was
again conveyed to me for the third time to recite in seven dialects and (I was
further told): You have got a seeking for every reply that I sent you, which
you should seek from Me. I said: O allah! forgive my people, forgive my people,
and I have deferred the third one for the day on which the entire creation will
turn to me, including even Ibrahim (peace be upon him) (for intercession).
Mustadrak al-Hakim, Hadith 4492: “The Messenger of Allah, may
Allah bless him, hit the chest of Umar bin Khattab with his hand three times
when he embraced Islam and he said, ‘O Allah remove the malice from his heart
and replace it with faith.’” (Hakim authenticated it)
Sahih Muslim, Book 031, Hadith Number 6051:
Jarir reported: Since I embraced Islam Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon
him) never refused to see me and he did not see me but with a smile on his
face. Ibn Numair has made this addition to this hadith which has been reported
on the authority of Ibn Idris that he (Jarir) made this complaint to him (to
the Holy Prophet): I cannot sit upon the horse with firmness, whereupon he
(Allah's Apostle) struck my chest with his hand and prayed: O
Allah, make him steadfast and rightly-guided.
Sahih Muslim, Book 11, Hadith 3937: Abu
Talha reported: 'Umar b. al-Khattab (Allah be pleased with him) delivered a
sermon on Friday and made a mention of Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him)
and he also made a mention of Abu Bakr (Allah be pleased with him) and then
said: I do not leave behind me any problem more difficult than that of Kalala.
I did not refer to Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) more repeatedly
than in case of the problem of Kalala, and he (the Holy Prophet) never showed
more annoyance to me than in regard to this problem, so much so that he struck my
chest with his fingers and said: 'Umar, does the verse revealed in
summer season, at the end of Sura al-Nisa' not suffice you? Hadrat 'Umar (then)
said: If I live I would give such verdict about (Kalala) that everyone would be
able to decide whether he reads the Qur'an or he does not.
10 July 2014
Hijab is Islamic, Not Cultural
Misconception No. 1:
Veil is an Arab culture dress, not religious.
Answer to this misconception: Prophet's wives and other believing women did not
use to veil before the verses of veil were revealed (Sahih Bukhari, Volume 1,
Book 4, Number 148). This is enough proof that veil is religious, not cultural.
Before Islam in Arabia, men and women would go round the Kaba naked, arguing
that they should present themselves before God in the same condition they were
born (Invitation to Islam, Issue 1, May 1997). Islam taught Arabs how to veil.
Judge Islam by Quran and Sunnah. Do not judge Islam by action of Muslims
because there are so many so called Muslims out there who do not practise
Islam. For example, do not define veil by how one of your Pakistani friend
covers her. This is because there are some Pakistani women who wear veil
properly when some others do not.
Misconception No. 2:
Rules of hijab for prophet's wives are different from rules of hijab for
other women. This is because:
(i) God tells prophet's companions to talk to prophet's
wives from behind a curtain when they go to prophet's home (33:53). God doesn't
mention anything like this about other women.
(ii) The list of unmarriageable kin for prophet's wives
(33:55) is different from the list of unmarriageable kin for other women
(24:31). Husband's father, husband's son, their own adopted sons, male subordinates free from physical needs,
and children are not included in the list of unmarriageable kin for prophet's
wives, but they are included in the list of unmarriageable kin for other women.
Answer to this misconception:
(i) Prophet's wives are the mothers of the believers. The
Quran 33: 53 says prophet's wives are unmarriageable kin of the believers.
Prophet's companions used to call them "mothers". This made prophet's
companions think that they can talk to prophet's wives face to face like they
talk to their mothers and other unmarriageable kin. This is why God sent
message ordering them to talk to prophet's wives from behind a curtain when
they go to prophet's home. Prophet's wives are our mothers in a spiritual
sense, so we cannot marry them. But we must talk to them from behind a curtain
just like we talk to other women from behind a curtain when we go to someone's
home. Aisha (RA) narrates that on one occasion a female Muslim wanted to give a
letter to the Holy Prophet (SW), the letter was delivered to the Holy Prophet
(SW) from behind a curtain. (Abu Dawood Book 33, Hadith # 4154)
1 May 2014
Is God's Love Unconditional?
God loves people who do good deed. God doesn't love
people who do evil deed. Both Bible and Quran agree on it. God says in the glorious Quran-"...God loves the doers of good" (2:195)
& "...God does not love evildoers" (3:57).
Gospel says the same thing. Gospel of Luke12:47 says-"[Jesus says:] And that slave who knew his master's will but didn't do it will be severely beaten."
If Jesus is a loving God, then why would he command us to beat slaves? Christians say Gospel of Luke 12:47 is a parable. But the problem remains if we consider Gospel of Luke 12:47 a parable. If we take Gospel of Luke 12:47 as a parable, then "salve" symbolizes "mankind" and "master" symbolizes "Jesus". Thus, Luke 12:47 proves that Christian God Jesus will severely punish us if we don't obey his commandments. It may make Christians uncomfortable because they believe their God Jesus is a loving God who doesn’t severely punish us for our sins, Instead he forgives us.
Why doesn’t God love both doers of good and doers of evil?
If God loves doers of evil, then it is injustice to doers of good. Logic says
doers of good should get rewarded and doers of evil should get punished. If we
reward both doers of good and doers of evil, then it is injustice to the doers
of good.
We all know that the Bible is a book full of contradictions.
It is true that Gospel of Luke12:47 agrees with the Quran on rewarding the
doers of good and punishing doers of evil. But there are verses in the bible
that contradict that. For example, Matthew 5:44 says to love your enemy.
Loving your enemy sounds good to you if you are incapable of thinking
multi-dimensionally. People who are not
capable of thinking multi-dimensionally always fail to see the other side of
the equation. It’s like a blind spot a driver fails to see while driving.
People who know how to think critically don’t buy the nonsensical idea of
loving your foe. This is because when you love your foe, you do injustice to
your friends.
Can we turn our foes into our friends without loving them? You
love your friends because you have good relationships with them. You hate your
foes because you have bad relationships with them. Therefore, it is clear that
loving or hating someone depends on what kind of relationship you have with
them. Note that a “good relationship” is a pre-requisite of a “friendship”. You
don’t be friends with others first and then build up good relationship with
them. It is the other way around. You start building up good relationship with
others first and then you end up being friends with them. If “good
relationship” between two friends disappears, then their “friendship”
disappears too.
Let’s say John is your foe. If you want to turn your foe “John”
into your friend, then you should resolve your dispute/conflict with John in
order to have a good relationship with him. Friendship between you and John
will grow when a good relationship between you and John is developed. Note that mediating
a conflict is only possible when both sides will to do so. If one side wants to
resolve the dispute/conflict but the other side doesn’t, dispute resolution
doesn’t work.
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